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The Brutal Lie of Modern Cities: Why You Feel So Lonely

Care and the City: Encounters with Urban Studies

Angelika Gabauer, Sabine Knierbein, Nir Cohen, Henrik Lebuhn, Kim Trogal

Think you are completely independent just because you pay your rent and buy your own groceries? Think again. The modern city is built on a toxic myth: that we are rational, greedy individuals who can survive entirely on our own. In reality, human beings are wired for deep, messy dependence. When a city stops caring for you, it is not an accident. It is deliberate design. From missing park benches that silently trap the elderly inside their homes, to corporate smart cities that erase the poor into mere data points, our urban spaces have weaponized neglect. Why are public libraries quietly turning into the last rebellious shelter of our society? Why did Athenian citizens run underground pirate kitchens to survive state collapse? And why is the wellness industry pushing self-care and meditation apps to privatize your exhaustion instead of fixing broken public systems? This breakdown walks slide-by-slide through the hidden architecture of urban neglect and shows how ordinary people across the world are reclaiming their streets through radical solidarity. Based on the groundbreaking volume Care and the City: Encounters with Urban Studies, edited by urban scholars Angelika Gabauer, Sabine Knierbein, Nir Cohen, Henrik Lebuhn, Kim Trogal, and their colleagues. The editors are prominent researchers in urban sociology, planning theory, and spatial politics across European and international universities. Their book investigates how contemporary urban restructuring disrupts everyday life, and how diverse urban practices of collective care can challenge neoliberal hostility. Stop blaming yourself for burnout. Learn how your environment was engineered against you, and start spotting the deliberate neglect hiding in plain sight.